Infant Dyschezia

   Infant Dyschezia can be simply defined as excessive crying and straining and uncoordinated pooping. Although often described as being common with infants, this is baby #5 for me and it’s my first time hearing about it, let alone experiencing it. Most people often get it confused with constipation in babies. Infants with constipation have a hard time passing hard stool.

When my daughter was 2 weeks old, I began to see her cry frantically. Her face would turn red and she would holler at the top of her lungs. Her little legs would straighten out as she seemed to be straining and in much pain. After what seems like forever, but turned out to be about 15 – 30 mins., sometimes it lasted for about an hour at a time, only to not have a bowel movement or have a very soft poop.

To have a bowel movement, it requires pressure from your stomach to push down and a relaxed anus muscle for it to come out. Dyschezia, or uncoordinated pooping, is when your baby doesn’t know to do those 2 things at the same time. And that also creates a fear of pooping in babies. With my daughter, her crying lasted longer due to her fear of pooping. When she felt she had to poop, she would cry and not let the poop come out. Once I realized that, I had to help her poop each time.

I’m not sure how long this lasts for infants but she’s 5 weeks now. It’s getting a lil bit better with my help. Although research says they are not in pain when they cry because it’s actually helping build the pressure to release. It really hurts like heck to see your baby in what seems like agony. This is new for both of us and the last thing I want to feel is helpless to her. Some nights we both just cry it out until we fall asleep. Apparently there’s no cure or medication that’s needed to help ease through this. She will eventually learn to poop on her own.

I hate seeing my baby girl go through this. It really pains my heart to see and hear her crying like that and to not be able to be soothed. I can’t wait for that day to come when pooping becomes normal for her, I am counting the days.

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The Welcome back… HML

I guess it’s true what they say, “it’s never too late to start over.” I’ve neglected this blog for so long and for specific reasons that include fear of speaking and being vunerable and open about my own life and experiences. Which is exactly my purpose for this. My prayer going forward is that I’m able to be fearless as I share. A lot has happened since I stopped blogging/posting. So I will just start with this… During the holidays of 2019 I found out my husband and I were expecting baby #5. We welcomed her July 2020. I’ll post my pregnancy experience in another post. It was definitely some kinda ride to the finish line. Year 2020 kicked off with a nationwide pandemic of #COVID-19. Thank God for keeping my family and I safe. I pray the safety and healing of us all from this. I can’t wait to go back to life as it use to be…pre-quarantine. Going forward, I will be more consistent with content that matters to us as #moms. Helping us stay connected during these times are so important as well as staying informed. Welcome back to the M๐Ÿ’›tha’Hood!!! Stay tuned for more.

Happy Holidays

Wishing you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New year!!!

Momma’s!!! The holidays can mean so many things. I just wanted to encourage you through this busy time of year. Take this time to focus on self and family preservation. Cherish the memories and moments spent with those you love. Remember to protect your peace and preserve your space. Love you Hautemoms!!! And see you all in 2018!!!

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